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The Circle- Insight & events for members of Geisinger Silver Circle

June 6, 2023 by Geisinger Silver Circle

Geisinger Health System serves over half a million patients across multiple states in the Northeastern United States. The Circle is a magazine where you’ll get insights and events for members of Geisinger Silver Circle. They open this month’s edition by talking about grief and they gave the National Widowers’ Organization and… Read More

Sleeping With Other Women’s Husbands

April 11, 2022 by Jan Tuckwood

What I learned from dating widowers

 

 

The first widower I dated introduced me to his wife. She was six feet under.

“Barbara, this is Jan,” he said, as we stood at her tombstone. “She’s come to take care of me now.”

I gulped. I had… Read More

‘Where’s the grief’ podcast featuring Ken Levy and Sam Feldman

October 13, 2020 by Jordon Ferber

Jordon Ferber podcast

“Death is an inevitable part of life, and yet it can be difficult and uncomfortable to talk about the process of grief amongst one’s peers. In this podcast comedian and bereaved sibling Jordon Ferber helps shine some light into the darkest parts of our own existence and encourage a more… Read More

Widowers Journey Podcast

October 22, 2019 by Herb Knoll

Widower's Journey Podcast

“Widowers Journey Podcast” is part of a support network for men who have been widowed or lost a spouse or life partner. Author Herb Knoll discovered upon losing his wife to cancer, that there were really no support services available to grieving men. He… Read More

WebMD Special Report on Grief Stages – featuring Sam Feldman, founder of the National Widowers’ Organization

July 30, 2019 by July 11, 2019 by Lisa Marshall, Reviewed by Neha Pathak, MD; WebMD News Special Report

WebMD

“There has been this idea in the past that grief proceeds in the same somewhat lockstep sequence for everyone,” says  David Feldman, PhD, a professor of counseling psychology at Santa Clara University in California. “We now know it just doesn’t work that way. People often attack themselves for doing grief… Read More

Men Helping Men Through Grief- Sam Feldman and Ken Levy

February 19, 2019 by Darwyn M. Dave, Dealing With My Grief

dealing with grief

Sam Feldman and Ken Levy are members of the National Widowers’ Organization. It’s an organization created by Sam to help men deal with their grief by talking about it with other men.

We have a candid discussion about losing a spouse, finding companionship after loss and the act of moving… Read More

Loss, Grief, and Life

April 24, 2012 by Patrick Phillips

Arts & Ideas

Confounded by grief, people are literally at a loss for everything. The return from despair can be long, and the return always takes different paths. Sandy Broyard, Sam Feldman and George Cohn reflect on grief, bereavement and recovery and what the process may mean for others.

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Turning His Grief Into a Support System

April 20, 2012 by Peter Brannen, MV Gazette

On Wednesday Sam Feldman pulled up a picture of a bathing beauty on his iPad. It was his wife, Gretchen, when she was only 20, the year he met her.

Sam Feldman has a support system for widowers struggling with loss. “So, that’s why I was sad and lonely,” he… Read More