Losing a wife or partner can leave you feeling isolated, confused and unsure where to turn. The Widower-to-Widower Peer Support Program connects you with another widower who’s been through it—someone who can listen, share and offer encouragement based on real experience. You are not alone, and support is available.

The Widower-to-Widower Peer Support Program matters—because after losing a spouse, many men:

  • Wonder if anyone understands how they feel.

  • Need someone they can talk to.

  • Want clear, honest information about what to expect.

  • Don’t have a local men’s support group.

This program offers personal connection with trained volunteers who are also widowers.

Please note: This program is only available to widowers residing in the United States.

You are not alone—a sympathetic ear and a helping hand are here.

Many men say that talking with someone who’s also lost a wife made the biggest difference. A fellow widower can suggest a book, recommend a group, or simply offer honest reassurance.

How do I request being put in touch with another widower?

Simply fill out the contact request form below. Your request will be evaluated against our database to match you with a widower close in age (within ten years) and with a similar parenting status.
You’ll receive an email from the National Widowers’ Organization with the contact details. After that, it’s up to you both to connect and share your experiences.

Can I request this for a family member or friend?

Please contact us for more information. Widowers who participate should be motivated and interested in the program themselves. For inquiries, please fill out our contact form.

Is this a counseling service?

No, this program is not mental health counseling. Volunteers may share personal experience and recommend professional resources or support groups.

Register for the Widower-to-Widower Peer Support Program

You can complete the form below or fill out the request form here.